What is relational aggression? When someone deliberately insults or emotionally hurts a classmate or friend; that's relational aggression.

What causes relational aggression? The need to be a part of the “popular group”, the fear of being left out by friends and sometimes even sheer boredom leads to bullying.

How does relational aggression hurt you? Relational aggression is more harmful than physical violence because it can lead to suicidal tendencies, depression, drug abuse, low grades and low self esteem. Bruises on your body will heal but the emotional scars last longer.

Does relational aggression affect only girls? “Boys fight with fists, girls fight with words”, so relational aggression affects girls more than boys.

Is relational aggression a middle school problem? "You can’t come into my playhouse coz I don’t like you”, is also considered relational aggression and it starts right from the tender age of 5.

I have been a victim of relational aggression. What do I do? Talk to someone you know and trust. It's not your fault and you don't deserve to be treated that way by anyone.

How can I help a victim? If you know someone who is being bullied, don’t remain a silent witness. Stand up against the bully and talk to a parent, teacher or someone you trust.